I don’t buy into gentle parenting, and I don’t buy into soft leadership either. Kind? Yes. Empathetic? Absolutely. Supportive? Of course. But tough? Hell yes. Mistakes shouldn’t be ignored. Feedback—both positive and negative—should come with real consequences. Leadership isn’t about hand-holding; it’s about setting expectations and enforcing them. That said, there’s a not so fine line between […]
At a cocktail party recently, a guy I met launched into a monologue about his deep knowledge of the auto industry. I tuned out after a few minutes, but before I did, he confidently declared that the whole industry was run by idiots. Now, I’ve known, worked with, and worked for (and been one myself […]
I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about AI and our future, and I’m still left with more questions than answers. In fact, I have almost nothing but questions—but at least they keep evolving, so I count that as progress! Some of my questions are big-picture, like: How does an economy function in a world that may […]
When you were a kid, did your parents ever look at you—maybe after some “creative” decision—and say, “That was good judgement!” or “You did not use good judgement!”? Be honest: at that point in your life, did you actually know what they meant? Or were you just guessing, chalking it up to luck or their […]
The passing of Jimmy Carter got me curious about his life. I’ll admit, my initial take on him was shaped by secondhand opinions and headlines. “Bungler as a president,” they said. Sure, I admired his post-presidency contributions—Habitat for Humanity volunteer, Nobel Prize winner, peacemaker, Sunday school teacher—but as a leader? My verdict was: good guy, […]
“I trust my gut.” I’ve heard that from countless leaders over the years. Well, of course you do! If you didn’t trust your intuition at least a little, you’d probably need to book a standing appointment with a therapist. Intuition is fast. And speed can be a gift. But here’s the catch: intuition bypasses conscious […]
I often talk with clients about avatars. No, not the blue aliens or virtual reality characters. I’m stretching the term a bit here. In Hinduism, an avatar refers to the earthly appearance of a deity, but I’m using it to describe the mental presence of someone who isn’t physically there. Whether visible or invisible, an […]
The recent political season and coming transition has me reflecting deeply on leadership—and not in a “Let’s follow their example!” kind of way. Most of you reading this are business leaders, and while I don’t give a damn about your political affiliation (honestly, please spare me), I care deeply about your behavior as a leader. […]
Yesterday, as I looked out my home office window, I spotted a young, energetic black Labrador zigzagging across my neighbor’s yard. Nose to the ground, she was clearly on a mission. Ten minutes later, my wife came upstairs and asked me to check out a different window. There, perched 15 feet in the air, was […]
I’m currently reading War by Bob Woodward. In it, he describes how Secretary of Defense Lloyd Austin begins each meeting on the war in Ukraine by emphasizing their “North Stars” — the key objectives. Each meeting. Great leaders know how to stay focused on key objectives. I “grew up” (sort of!) as a member of the management […]